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free · survival mode assessment

Soft Girl
Reset
Kit

Find out which part of your life broke down first in survival mode — and exactly where to start rebuilding.

Your survival mode diagnosis — which of the 6 layers collapsed under pressure
Why it broke down — the real reason, not just the surface symptoms
3 soft actions — gentle, realistic steps to start rebuilding today

○ 4 questions · under 10 minutes · free

Question 1 of 4

How long have you been
in survival mode?

Be honest with yourself. There’s no wrong answer here.

A few weeks — something recently knocked me off

A specific event or season tipped me over.

A few months — I’ve been running on empty for a while

I can’t remember when I last felt like myself.

Years — survival mode is just how I live

I thought this was just life. I didn’t know it could be different.

It comes and goes — I rebuild, then collapse again

I keep trying but can’t make the changes stick.

I’m not sure — everything just feels heavy right now

I just know something needs to change.

Question 2 of 4

What collapsed first
when survival mode hit?

The first thing to go is usually the most important thing to rebuild.

Taking care of my body

Skincare, sleep, physical rituals — all went out the window.

My energy and how I nourish myself

I stopped moving, eating well, and doing what fuels me.

My home environment

My space became chaotic. It drains me now instead of restoring me.

Any sense of routine or structure

Every day is reactive. There’s no rhythm holding anything together.

Actually living my life

I stopped experiencing things. I’m just getting through days.

My sense of self

I’ve lost track of who I am outside of survival and obligation.

Question 3 of 4

How does survival mode
show up in your day?

Where does it actually break down in real life?

My mornings — I start reactive and never recover

My afternoons — I crash and lose all momentum

My evenings — I can’t wind down or switch off

All day — every part feels like survival mode

Weekends — they disappear and I feel more behind

Question 4 of 4

What would rebuilding
feel like for you?

Not what you think you should want. What you actually crave.

Days that feel intentional, not reactive

Structure. Rhythm. Less chaos. More control.

Feeling like myself again

Reconnected. Grounded. Present. Like her.

Energy and ease in my body

Nourished. Moving. Physically alive again.

Peace — in my home, in my mind

A life that restores me instead of constantly draining me.

To actually live, not just survive

Present. Experiencing things. Choosing my life.

Your Survival Mode Diagnosis

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Your Rebuild Starting Point

3 soft actions to begin today

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